Last week, Uncle Lee made his maiden comment in Yours Truly's blog which I feel a need to share it with you if you had not read it before. (Yes, finally he has managed to 'build' his own Bungalow here! BTW, you might like his blog... *wink wink*) This Uncle Lee who's staying in the same land as Fantasy "sticky" flier, is one "Uncle" in a Million! Well, okay, maybe not in a million... but you know what I mean, rite...
Uncle Lee said...
PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE:
People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring this relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done, and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you, Uncle Lee! So, do I get you a pipe? Or a carton of Lucky Strike? ;)
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Oh, and I have a pick-up line to share with sengkor, kenny ng, mozilla monster, ah nel, nicholas, zeroimpact, Liucas, Ah Boy the guys:
Girl : Coffee, Tea or... Me?
Guy : We have Coffee to stay alert, then have You, then Tea to relax & sleep.