PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE: People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring this relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done, and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. You job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Dear ah nel,... Which level of Hell are u in? Level 18 ar?
********** Dear may,... Nowadays Life After Death is liuliu luxurious neh...
********** Dear uncle lee,... Welcome! *brings Red Carpet* Please make yourself comfy. So fast you made your way here from nyonyapenang's! Yes, I read your comments there and yes, me is also from the Pearl of the Orient ;) Ka ki lang... Hehe...
Firstly, thank you so much for taking the time to write such a long comment for me. Really really appreciate it. Thank Q, uncle! Are you really so uncle maa?
Are you some kind of a motivator?
Sigh! If only the SEASONS don't change...
Once again, thank you, uncle lee! Oo eng ko lai lah, ok?
********** Dear titoki,... Lei chan hai hou lek ah... ;)
ps: I hate confrontations...
********** Dear lokter,... Aisay... balik-balik sotong lagi... piak with half-boiled eggs ler... :P *prepares to be hugged*
Hello Angel, Wa...I have not heard that word "terror" let alone "terrorist" since my young days. Hey, thank you, I thinks that's a very nice compliment. I remember those days when mini skirts fashion just start and we Bujang Lapoks (?) would whistle "wheeeet...wheeeoo"!and many times almost hantam the lamp post or masuk longkang when riding our motor bikes and seeing these girls walking by. Wa...pony tails, flaired short short skirts, or short shorts...then comment, "wa.. she terror la"! If had masuk longkang then "terror" becomes "terok"! Ha ha, see!...you brought back memories, you have a nice day, Angel. UL.
Dear liucas,... U din gib me your phone number, how to date u? Har? Har??
********** Dear ah boy,... Waaa... ah boy got liuliu sharp eyes worr... u like? Hehe... I like too :)
********** Dear j,... Cannnn... friends do mean alot to us, don't they? :)
********** Dear carcar,... Aiyahhh... missed you pulak... i tingtong-ed you but u not around... later lah ok?
********** Dear uncle lee,... Welcome back again! Haha! I was afraid u thought that terrorist literally meant terrorist instead of someone who's terror...
Miniskirts & bujang lapoks? Very Saloma & P. Ramlee era!! And oh yes, I really really love the Bujang Lapok movie! One of my favourite malay movie. Pok Pok Pok, bujang lapok... was the song.
Waaa, uncle, me thinks last time hor, you must be a Lengjai, a Romeo! Hehe... u must must share all those lovey-dovey stories with us in your new blog, ok??
Haha, actually hor, I dun quite understand why you guys said "She so terror..." "Terror" in hokkien not mean ho liao meh? (Ada oomph!) haha... I hope u understand what I'm saying here, uncle... nanti if you had to call your niece/nephew to check with them what it means, then i'm such a bad communicator.. haha... but seriously, if you dun understand, can always ask us wan... we won't charge you anything, just share with us your stories! And you also can save $$$ on your long distance calls... hehe...
Oh ya hor, that night i saw your tingtong i thought who is the siao ting tong out there :P kakaka...
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wait a minute! wah seh! nowaday doggie laugh like human being, muhahah! no more woof woof woof!
*impressed*
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hey i think i will print out the first pic here and cut it out for card making, maybe. can mah?
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friends are something which is very tangible. i used to call my closest gf in kl honey darling and sweetheart...but wat happen when all your closest honey reluctant to give their helping hand when u are in need? you turn angry? blaming? cry or shut off?
sigh...
i kept quiet, and walk off their life slowly...
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friends are definitely the most important element in my life, besides my family.
i think i can live without air, but not friends...
Dear lp,... *brings Red Carpet* Hullo... first time here? :) Thank you for speaking out and do make yourself comfortable, yeah...
What if the friend is a long time buddy? You think it's worth? Or not...
********** Dear pink cotton,... Haha... yeah, no one likes to be angry with... or even feel angry but wat to do... humans are so ma farn cos we got feelings...
Wah... you very good neh... be nice nice to me, okay? :D
********** Dear liucas,... Apa you gelak-gelak??
********** Dear carcar,... Yerrr... say people siao ting tong wan... :P
Haiii... i also dunno what is happening with todays' doggies... all can talk, can blog... very scary hor?
Can, can, take anything also can wan... ;)
For me, I will try not to ask for help if I can help it because I'm always very afraid to inconvenience people... very paiseh... actually, no one is reliable, except our family, which I think you'll agree with me, hor? :)
Waaa... u can really live without air ma? Wait I confirm with lokter chen :P
56 comments:
Send them a Get Well Soon card...
friends are for hugging!!
friends are... friends. too many words to describe, yet it doesn't need a specific description.
can't stay upset with a close friend for long, problems usually work themselves out. kan?
may :im in hell so we cant hug ler??? ;P
ah nel: waaa! hell also got internet connection ka? wakakaka! hug you when you reincarnate lor!
PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE:
People come into your life for a REASON, a SEASON, or a LIFETIME. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring this relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done, and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. You job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
If he/she is your best friend, you won't hesitate to confront them for their misdeeds.
But if he/she is just your normal friend, why would you care what they have done? Ngaam mou? ;)
friends are friends...
can hug hug..
can piak with sotong..
can do this & that.. :P
mai don't talk to each other lor...How?? hahaha...
Actuary I was also about to put up a post about friendship leh. Belum complete lagi.
frens mean a lot to me~ hahahahahaha
they are important part of my life` :D
Pin gor kik chaan lei ah?
Friends are part of my life...
fren fren marah mah belanja teh ais satu with roti kosong bole kau tim wan....afterall...wat are frens for?
gerooo~
Matahari terbenam menusuk kalbu,
Terpaku memandang sambil berjalan,
Kawan itu untuk selama waktu,
Saling bermaafan ringankan beban.
Dear ah nel,...
Pratinum Blek! :P
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Dear l b,...
Grolden Friend!
Haha... Get Well Soon card? Nanti kena piak, how? :P
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Dear may,...
Srilver Friend!
Hugging?
*prepares to be hugged*
Some problems don't work out... check out Uncle Lee's comment :)
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Send them also That's What Friends Are For.mp3!!
Dear ah nel,...
Which level of Hell are u in?
Level 18 ar?
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Dear may,...
Nowadays Life After Death is liuliu luxurious neh...
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Dear uncle lee,...
Welcome!
*brings Red Carpet*
Please make yourself comfy. So fast you made your way here from nyonyapenang's! Yes, I read your comments there and yes, me is also from the Pearl of the Orient ;) Ka ki lang... Hehe...
Firstly, thank you so much for taking the time to write such a long comment for me. Really really appreciate it. Thank Q, uncle! Are you really so uncle maa?
Are you some kind of a motivator?
Sigh! If only the SEASONS don't change...
Once again, thank you, uncle lee! Oo eng ko lai lah, ok?
**********
Dear titoki,...
Lei chan hai hou lek ah... ;)
ps: I hate confrontations...
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Dear lokter,...
Aisay... balik-balik sotong lagi... piak with half-boiled eggs ler... :P
*prepares to be hugged*
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Dear king's wife,...
If dun see everyday it's ok... if see everyday, den how?
Waa! U oso writing abt friendship? U got friend problem oso ka?? Sien, hor?
Okay, I wait to read yours pulak... :)
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Dear a^ben,...
*high 5*
Me too... friends play a big part in my life, especially now that I'm ku ling ling here in the Big City...
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Dear cocka,...
Yao yan keik chan ngor, lei pong ngor pou sao?? ^^
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Dear kenny,...
Ditto! :)
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Dear ah monk,...
Belanja makan oni? So bila mau belanja aku nie??
Gero gero gerooo!!
Harap maaf, patik takde ilham nak 'berdagang' pantun malam ini :P
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Dear l b,...
Heh... awwww.... liu so schweet... what about We Are The World? :P
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We are the World?!! ewwwww!! LOL... send her a Real Doll™, liao! Or to me.. *grins*
Dear l b,...
Just a thought maa... sounds so... 'united', no?
Who said it's a Her? :P
OK OK, tell me how much is a Real Doll™ and I'll check my account :P
TOO MUCH!!!! LOL
How much is too much??
*pretends din hear/see the figure*
Sleep tight! But not that tight! :P
Funny how I thought about this today.
What do you do if you are angry with your friend and your friend angry with you?
I wished I could pretend not to care and let it go. But I know it'll come back to me again. Darn it.
Friends...
No words...
I try my very best not to upset them, actually anyone
smoke the peace pipe together-gether. ;)
uncle lee,
i appreciate your piece too. ;)
If he/she is reading this, he/she will know that you are his/her true friend.
if can't resolve, then agree to let it be unresolved? some things are better left at that... :)
*runs towards angel to give big big HUGS*
Diu that fella la ! Simple ! ;-)
good friends are those who can make you feel comfortable when you're with them.
have a threesome of course ! you cant be angry while having sex right ?
okla, i dun force u to buy me aiskling now. dun angry wit me oredi okeh?
*hugs*
Friends are for hugging.
Friends are for piakking with sotong.
...eh, everybody komen like this liao!
Unker Cocka pong lei pou sau? New 0-0-Cocka filem come out jor: Reban Royale!
chup!
but a tired one... need some sleep. :(
friends are people that will stick with u through thick and thin, not just laughing friends, but friend in need!
i think i m seasonal oso la..
Forget injuries, never forget kindnesses, Best wishes to you, UL.
Dear Sir SA,...
Sometimes, I just donno anymore lah... I'm actually a very easy going kinda person... oh well, que sera sera :)
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Dear butty,...
U did? Wow... A lotta Great Minds around here :)
Can't let it go, huh? Learn to be like me... let it go... then u'll look as young as me haha! :P
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Dear zeroimpact,...
You could never upset people cos you are so... so nice! ;)
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Dear nyonya,...
Haha! Hisap paip keamanan?
*brings lighter*
*lights up*
*koffkoffkoffkoff*
How liddat? :P
Unker Lee very keng, hor? Terrorist betul la... :D No no unker, I not say u terrorist, I mean, you so terror, so u are terrorist lor...
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Dear inevitable,...
Wow... this is deep... how would he/she know? I dun think I would if I were him/her...
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Dear ducky,...
You are trying to coax me into one, aren't you??
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Dear sengkor,...
Okeh... so, you buy me? ^^
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Dear plink,...
*hugs back*
Haha!! Reban Royale?? So the ... so the cock!!! :P
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Dear stupe,...
Poor thing... sorry can't help you... :(
But congratulations on your Bundle of Joy...
Yes, daddy, I learned from you what you taught Ryan in your first letter to him...
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Dear winn,...
Yeah, I think so... you are winnter, sumwinn, autuwinn & sprwinng... :)
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Dear uncle lee,...
Thank you. Same to you too. I think it's pretty easy for me to forget injuries since I'm sucha forgetful person... :)
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Alamak!!! I missed 3 people's comments! Sorry!
Dear may,...
Yalor, let it die lor... since it's prolly a seasonal thing... :)
Whoaaa... what big big hugs you give...
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Dear lin peh,...
U teach me how to tiu la... I very see marn wan...
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Dear ah tiu,...
A very good definition! Lei hai tak geh!
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liuliu so look up me kar?
im in hell no 128...lol
may :they burn pc n internet 4 me ler...u wana bisit me??? *wink*
Soli so late only comment ... was away travelling ...
A friend is an angel like liu ...
Dear ah nel,...
Now oni u know arr?
If u run out of internet credit down there, dun forget to let us know. Just leave comment, we burn credit for u :P
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Dear moz,...
A friend no need to say soli wan... :)
angel jiejie never date me:( *wails*...unfair
- liucas
angel jie jie has new profile pict..
so nice :)
Ah Boy likes :)
friends mean the world to me, after God.. erm after family.. can say liddat ah?
i'm here!
come back later, my contact lens too dry untill it almost pop out :P
oops!! SORRY! this is not YM, tot want to chat with you tim :P
we chat later k...
Hello Angel, Wa...I have not heard that word "terror" let alone "terrorist" since my young days. Hey, thank you, I thinks that's a very nice compliment. I remember those days when mini skirts fashion just start and we Bujang Lapoks (?) would whistle "wheeeet...wheeeoo"!and many times almost hantam the lamp post or masuk longkang when riding our motor bikes and seeing these girls walking by.
Wa...pony tails, flaired short short skirts, or short shorts...then comment, "wa.. she terror la"! If had masuk longkang then "terror" becomes "terok"! Ha ha, see!...you brought back memories, you have a nice day, Angel. UL.
Dear liucas,...
U din gib me your phone number, how to date u? Har? Har??
**********
Dear ah boy,...
Waaa... ah boy got liuliu sharp eyes worr... u like? Hehe... I like too :)
**********
Dear j,...
Cannnn... friends do mean alot to us, don't they? :)
**********
Dear carcar,...
Aiyahhh... missed you pulak... i tingtong-ed you but u not around... later lah ok?
**********
Dear uncle lee,...
Welcome back again! Haha! I was afraid u thought that terrorist literally meant terrorist instead of someone who's terror...
Miniskirts & bujang lapoks? Very Saloma & P. Ramlee era!! And oh yes, I really really love the Bujang Lapok movie! One of my favourite malay movie. Pok Pok Pok, bujang lapok... was the song.
Waaa, uncle, me thinks last time hor, you must be a Lengjai, a Romeo! Hehe... u must must share all those lovey-dovey stories with us in your new blog, ok??
Haha, actually hor, I dun quite understand why you guys said "She so terror..." "Terror" in hokkien not mean ho liao meh? (Ada oomph!) haha... I hope u understand what I'm saying here, uncle... nanti if you had to call your niece/nephew to check with them what it means, then i'm such a bad communicator.. haha... but seriously, if you dun understand, can always ask us wan... we won't charge you anything, just share with us your stories! And you also can save $$$ on your long distance calls... hehe...
Hope you are having a great weekend, uncle!
First, have to think is this friend worth my time to be angry with or not. If not..then I won't waste my time.
aiyoh
im terrible at this..
hahah i don like the feeling of having ppl angry at me ..and worst if you have to see that person everyday :P
of cos i try to apologize and b good good to him/her lor...
well if he/she play 'hard to get' then he/she's not a FRIEND :p
I just wana say that I liked Uncle Lee's wise words abt 'ppl in your life'.. ^^
muhahahah!
Oh ya hor, that night i saw your tingtong i thought who is the siao ting tong out there :P kakaka...
**
wait a minute! wah seh! nowaday doggie laugh like human being, muhahah! no more woof woof woof!
*impressed*
**
hey i think i will print out the first pic here and cut it out for card making, maybe. can mah?
**
friends are something which is very tangible. i used to call my closest gf in kl honey darling and sweetheart...but wat happen when all your closest honey reluctant to give their helping hand when u are in need? you turn angry? blaming? cry or shut off?
sigh...
i kept quiet, and walk off their life slowly...
**
friends are definitely the most important element in my life, besides my family.
i think i can live without air, but not friends...
Dear lp,...
*brings Red Carpet*
Hullo... first time here? :) Thank you for speaking out and do make yourself comfortable, yeah...
What if the friend is a long time buddy? You think it's worth? Or not...
**********
Dear pink cotton,...
Haha... yeah, no one likes to be angry with... or even feel angry but wat to do... humans are so ma farn cos we got feelings...
Wah... you very good neh... be nice nice to me, okay? :D
**********
Dear liucas,...
Apa you gelak-gelak??
**********
Dear carcar,...
Yerrr... say people siao ting tong wan... :P
Haiii... i also dunno what is happening with todays' doggies... all can talk, can blog... very scary hor?
Can, can, take anything also can wan... ;)
For me, I will try not to ask for help if I can help it because I'm always very afraid to inconvenience people... very paiseh... actually, no one is reliable, except our family, which I think you'll agree with me, hor? :)
Waaa... u can really live without air ma? Wait I confirm with lokter chen :P
*monday hugs*
Dear Angel:
Red carpet wor..hmm pai sei lar, just a quick question ada any camera flash flash flash at the red carpet or not? ;p
First time left comment but not first time read the blog though...
Ok back to the question, how about it she/he is my long time buddy...depends on how angry/hurt I am.
Some
Dear lp,...
Haha... no need paiseh wan... camera? If you want, can be arranged... if u donwan, also can *LOL* Farnie la you..
You didn't cakap habis izit? Too kan cheong hit "Comment" liao?
*lost*
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