True Love Tagged by Trinity

Love is the greatest feeling
Love is like a play
Love is what I feel for you
Each and everyday
Love is like a smile
Love is like a song
Love is a great emotion
That keeps us going strong
I love you with my heart
My body and soul
I love the way I keep loving
Like a love I can't control
So remember when your eyes meet mine
I love you with all my heart
And I have poured my entire soul into you
Right from the very start

Wahlaoeh!! Lum anot that poem??? I type that time also cannot tahan... anyway, Trinity the Terror Lady tagged me about some True Love stuff. Have to answer these 10 lovey-dovey questions.. please, do bear with me... even if you didn't read the (sampat) answers, it's okay.. just listen to the songs! Especially the last one... ;-) Thank you, Leon!

01. What does true love mean to you?
Like how my mom & dad love me... unconditionally.

02. How do you know you're really in love?

Mandi tak basah... makan tak kenyang.. tidur tak lena... buat apa-apa pun terbayang-bayang akan wajahnya.

03. How many times in your life have you fallen in love?
Tak ingat. Blame it on (selective) goldfish memory...

04. Have you ever fallen out of true love because you were mad at the moment?
What is true? What is love? Mad, One has been thru' many, many times...

05. Do you feel love and physical attraction are the same thing?

Not necessary the same. But One will be lucky if One feels both love & physical attraction towards the same person.

Rick Astley Together Forever
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06. If your true love became ill or disfigured would you continue to love them the same way?
Affirmative. Till death do us part.

07. Should anyone else be able to tell you who to love or not love?
No one.

08. Do you believe people that ended up divorced were ever truly in love?
What can One say.. people change, feelings change.

09. Would you give up something you want for someone you love?
Maybe, baby...

10. If you truly love someone do you feel it should be unconditional?

One used to think that way before when One was young and naive. Now? Now One asks, What Is Love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more...

OK, kaotim! Next, I shall tag the Fantastic Four:

A - Adrian
B - Bongkersz
C - Cibol
D - D-Suituapui

Love Actually... A Fishy Story...

My SugarCane + Lime drink

Since in the previous entry, we talked about Infidelity, today I found an interesting entry @ VioletLim.com. Oh, who is Violet, you asked? She's the co-founder of Lunch Actually, Asia's first lunch dating company ;-) Anyone interested? Can go try! Kinda like DinnerForSix but it's lunch. Nope, I have not tried it. I need meh?? :P

Violet wrote about Love, In Theory. She found a theory by Robert Stemberg, who is a psychologist and a psychometrician (wah, sounds very terror!). He came out with the Triangular Theory of Love, which is pretty insightful.



Lemme copy the whole thing from wikipedia lah!

The three components, pictorially labeled on the vertices of a triangle, interact with each other and with the actions they produce and with the actions that produce them so as to form seven different kinds of love experiences (nonlove is not represented). The size of the triangle functions to represent the amount of love - the bigger the triangle the greater the love. The shape of the triangle functions to represent the kind of love, which may vary over the course of the relationship:

• Nonlove is the absence of all three of Sternberg's components of love.

• Liking/friendship in this case is not used in a trivial sense. Sternberg says that this intimate liking characterizes true friendships, in which a person feels a bondedness, a warmth, and a closeness with another but not intense passion or long-term commitment.

• Infatuated love is often what is felt as "love at first sight". But without the intimacy and the commitment components of love, infatuated love may disappear suddenly.

• Empty love: Sometimes, a stronger love deteriorates into empty love, in which the commitment remains, but the intimacy and passion have died. In cultures in which arranged marriages are common, relationships often begin as empty love and develop into one of the other forms with the passing of time.

• Romantic love: Romantic lovers are bonded emotionally through intimacy and physically through passionate arousal.

• Companionate love is an intimate, non-passionate type of love that is stronger than friendship because of the element of long-term commitment. Sexual or physical desire is not an element of companionate love. This type of love is often found in marriages in which the passion has gone out of the relationship but a deep affection and commitment remain. The love ideally shared between family members is a form of companionate love, as is the love between close friends who have a platonic but strong friendship.

• Fatuous love can be exemplified by a whirlwind courtship and marriage in which a commitment is motivated largely by passion, without the stabilizing influence of intimacy.

• Consummate love is the complete form of love, representing an ideal relationship toward which people strive. Of the seven varieties of love, consummate love is theorized to be that love associated with the “perfect couple”. According to Sternberg, such couples will continue to have great sex fifteen years or more into the relationship, they can not imagine themselves happy over the long term with anyone else, they weather their few storms gracefully, and each delight in the relationship with one other.^[1] However, Sternberg cautions that maintaining a consummate love may be even harder than achieving it. He stresses the importance of translating the components of love into action. "Without expression," he warns, "even the greatest of loves can die" (1987, p.341). Thus, consummate love may not be permanent. If passion is lost over time, it may change into companionate love.

Itulah dia... too complicated to comprehend? Never mind! I copy part of Violet's entry for you also!

Passion, Intimacy and Commitment, in no particular order. He describes passion as physical and sexual attraction. Intimacy is the closeness and the connection, especially in communication. And commitment is easiest describe as marriage. And the strongest relationship is a relationship where all these aspects grow at the same rate like an equilateral triangle.

If there is only passion, that is called infatuation.

If there is only intimacy, that is called friendship.

If there is only commitment, that is called empty love.

If there is passion and intimacy, but no commitment, that is romantic love.

If there is passion and commitment, but no intimacy, that is fatuous love.

If there is intimacy and commitment, but no passion, that is companionate love.

If there is passion, intimacy and commitment, that is the most ideal of love… consummate love. :)

Many marriages, as time goes by, end up in ‘empty love’ as the passion is gone, and the intimacy too wanes. And the only thing holding the marriage together is the commitment.

Or in other marriages, the passion is there… but there is no communication. The couple simply does not grow together, and their paths hardly converge.

All the best to you, you and you!

At first, not many fishy came...
there were 2 other people sitting around the 'pool' with me.

And yesterday, my First Experience @ the Fish Spa... I didn't go to the 'popular' one @ Pavilion. I went to this Sampuoton Fish Spa at Merchant Square, somewhere near Tropicana. Saw this spa when passing by NKVE and told myself, die-die oso must try.. at least once... What's iVerdict you asked?

Ya Allah! OMG! Cinders and Ashes! I cannot tahan!!! It's way way WAY too geli, too ticklish for moi! And I paid RM60 for those fish to tickle my soles for half an hour.. Yes, the rate is much higher than the one @ Pavilion, I believe... And to think they have treatment for the whole body also for RM150... gosh, no way, Jose!!

When those two people finished, oh dear... I was attacked in large schools!!
Betul I kenot tahan... I kept moving my feet, scaring 'em away.
But each time, they came back for more -_-

Never felt so geli before... For RM60, next time I shall go for aromatheraphy...
or have someone rub my back for free... ;-)

NB - All pictures in today's entry (above) were taken with the Nokia N70. This is to prove that N70's 2Megapixel also not bad, okay.. Becos got so many people puji iPhone's 2Megapixel cam's pics in Someone's blog ;P *waits for comments regarding the pics* Haha...

Last, but not least... for Dearest Daddy...

Friday Videos

Bongkersz reminded me of Videojugs in his entry yesterday and so today, I'm posting some videos on the 'hottest' topic in some blogs - INFIDELITY.

I'm sure you know of people who cheat, because I know many. Up to a point where it scares me just to think of how many of them are doing it... anyway... nah, if you have nothing better to do, can watch the videossss.

Addendum @ 2pm - If you still didn't know that our ex-Health Minister is now blogging (cannot be 100% certain that he is who he claims he is tho'...), this is his entry for the day @ http://drchua9.blogspot.com/2008/04/in-reply-to-sex-dvd-comments.html (So ngam geh...)

Regarding the sex dvd matter that was raised quite frequently in my blog, I say that I have the moral courage to admit and apologize and within 48 hours, I have resigned from all government and party posts. While I stand to be judged on my private life, nobody seems to be concern at who is the person behind this tape to character assassinate me.

Since my family accepted my apology, I will continue to move on. I do not claim to be perfect, at least I choose not to behave by saying although I was advised by my lawyers “It looks like me, it sounds like me but its not me”. The rest of other humours are false that it is continued by my “friends” to assassinate me.

I was deeply encouraged by a survey done by a local magazine in Labis where they went down to interview voters on the dvd issue. Majority think that it was a personal matter that involves me and my family more than the public. During the election when my son contested for the Labis constituency, this issue was not raised at all.

One of the leading opposition leaders who went to jail purportedly on sodomy and corruption is today hailed as a reformist in the country. I think majority of rakyat of Malaysia think he was a victim of character assassination. So friend, we make mistakes but life has to move on.

As I've said before, I will continue to move on and you are entitled to your judgement.

VideoJug: Infidelity Basics

VideoJug: Infidelity Detection

VideoJug: Infidelity Prevention

VideoJug: If Your Spouse Is Cheating


VideoJug: If You Are Cheating


VideoJug: Infidelity And Emotional Affairs


VideoJug: Infidelity And Cyber Affairs


VideoJug: Romantic Affairs In The Workplace


VideoJug: Infidelity And Healing


VideoJug: Why Guys Cheat
-From a man's perspective-


VideoJug: Why Guys Cheat
-From a woman's perspective-

A "bonus" video... kakaka...

How To Spy On Your Partner

Wordless Wednesday - A Pic = 1,000 Words? Come, tell me those words!

The Pregnant Man

The Pregnant Man on Oprah, Thomas. (*Wow!*)

But, he used to be Tracey. (*Okayyyyyyyyyyyy...*)

Watch the 5 parts Interview which was aired in the States just a couple days ago. Guys, if given a Chance, are you willing to carry your child for 9 months inside you?

Happy Sunday!

Part 1

Part 2

Part 3

Part 4

Part 5